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Why I Wrote Working My Way Back To Me and the Workbook

“It’s NOT a FRANKIE Valli thing: It’s a FAMILY Dysfunction thing! It’s a WOMAN thing!   I wrote this book because I wanted to understand why in the world any woman (ME) would waste her time loving anyone who didn’t love her back.  Why do so many of us worship men who have no clue …

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6 Tips For Ex-wives on Father’s Day!

This Father’s Day is quiet for me.  My kids are grown and live on their own.  My ex has passed away and the kids have quietly seemed to move forwards.  In fact, it’s too quiet.  Stillness does many things.  One of the most profound is the space it gives for us to review our lives …

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Why Is Your Love Life A Total Mess?

Working My Way Back To Me

Working My Way Back to Me is the story of my relationship with Frankie Valli, which started with a meeting when I was five years old, consummated when I was 16, and went on nearly three decades. I first wrote this story on my own four years ago, but the self-published memoir did not gain …

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What Women Can Do After The “METOO” Dust Settles

Another one bites the dust! There is a movement of enormous proportion energizing a new vibe in history as never before. It’s as big as Women’s Suffrage; maybe bigger because it involves what goes on privately between men and women not just in public forums. The coveted and protected male club of using power to …

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Finding YOUR Joy In The Chaos Of Religion

I think we get confused about religion and what life is supposed to be. The spiritual books can clutter it all in our consciousness….from being told we are born in darkness all the way to the idea that we actually create anything at all we desire. Both to me seem a bit exaggerated and depressing. …

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