I sit here fingers numb as my heart sinks again as I try to formulate the words of yet another famous man, actor Steve Collins accused of underage sex with girls and worse.

 Steve’s story was leaked to TMZ via his divorce papers from actress, Faye Grant in 2012.  The papers detail Alleged child molestation confession and personality disorder.

On her behalf, Faye denies being part of the leak and I believe her as they have one daughter together and had been married nearly 27 years.  One thing I know, we women protect our young at all costs.

The worst is that Collins was voted the 11th most wonderful TV Dad last year for his role on 7th Heaven.


 This sucks!

In the documents Grant shares in January of that year she “learned for the first time that Stephen had been engaging in a long term patter of sexually molesting children. There were at least three girls over the course of several years.  At least one of the victims has filed a report with the New York City Special Victims Unit.

His diagnosis, and I concur, though I don’t know him, is that he has ‘narcissistic personality disorder with sociopathic tendencies.”

What does that mean to you?

  • Looks are deceiving.
  • Money is not an indicator of success.
  • Having a family doesn’t make a guy safe.
  • Actors play parts; that is not who are they are.
  • Don’t blame the wife or the victims.  Please…so wrong!

From a counselor’s point of view:

  • A personality disorder is a life long condition.
  • Success is not an excuse for narcissism.
  • There are sociopaths that portray ‘normal’ lives.
  • Don’t blame the wife or the victims.  Please…so wrong!

My my personal experience with Frankie Valli:

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  • Imprinting the ideas of lust and passion arrives between the ages of 7-12.  
  • These imprints last a life time without intervention.
  • These imprints affect all other romantic relationships in adult life without intervention.
  • Don’t blame me or the other women involved.

Let us pray for our children, Faye Grant, Kate Collins, and the other women who have been violated by Mr. Steve Collins.

Love always,

April of Course



April Kirkwood

April Kirkwood LPC holds two masters and is presently working in the mental health focussing on both women's issues as well as addiction. Her desire is to help others take the present, healing the past, and creating a wonderful tomorrow. Focus: child trauma, holistic methodology, sexual molestation and harassment.

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